Galatians 6:1-5
1Brothers, if someone is caught in a sin, you who are spiritual should restore him gently. But watch yourself, or you also may be tempted. 2Carry each other's burdens, and in this way you will fulfill the law of Christ. 3If anyone thinks he is something when he is nothing, he deceives himself. 4Each one should test his own actions. Then he can take pride in himself, without comparing himself to somebody else, 5for each one should carry his own load.

wow this message is amazing! i have to look unto Jesus. Sometime it seems so natural and normal to compare to others but nono, im validated by only God. Only approved by God not anyone's expectation but God.

I have never done my best in anything, even after accepting Christ, yeah everything. By using this "law", i should be guilty of every soul left.
But lets say for example: i done my best(if i really do), the person still chose to go. I am accountable to God but in the eyes of man(or simply in my own eyes), it is not the case. It is still deemed as my fault; the system we planned out failed.
If i haven't done my best but the person is convicted to stay, by men's eyes, i am a successful leader.

just look for God's validation rather than man's. Cutting a finger of a man doesnt do any help for the whole body unless this finger is really rotting badly which can cause harm to the body.

In the same way, hold on to what God placed you in. Giving up doesnt guarantee the situation is gonna be better or even someone can replace you.

your life is not defined by your ministry. But let what you do be glorifying to God; an outward expression of your love.